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 Post subject: Starting to see...
PostPosted: Sun Aug 22, 2010 11:17 pm 
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I'm finally starting to identify where my own thinking may be off, and more able to pause before reacting, and last night was a huge step forward for me...

I was able to calmly close off interaction with someone that I needed to say goodbye to (as much as I will miss them, I accept their decision and their boundaries), and then had a brief talk with another friend about how some of my needs have begun to change, expressed what my needs were, and placed no expectations on them at all. It's their decision, and either way, I know that I will be okay, they will be okay, and we can still respect each other no matter what.

And that led me to realize how much I've changed in even a short amount of time, which showed me that progress is being made. It's been like dominoes, here; one plus followed by another.

I'm getting it! I'm making progress!


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 Post subject: Re: Starting to see...
PostPosted: Sun Aug 22, 2010 11:23 pm 
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hey congratulations!


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 Post subject: Re: Starting to see...
PostPosted: Mon Aug 23, 2010 1:36 am 
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meremortal wrote:
hey congratulations!


Thank you! I feel like it's small in the larger scheme of things, but... at the point I started from, it's huge and exciting for me! :)


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 Post subject: Re: Starting to see...
PostPosted: Mon Aug 23, 2010 7:03 am 
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:) let's continue to progress! :)


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