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You are right in that there are other things besides being hungry that can get in the way of the steps. It would probably be better if I stated the problem in a more factual, less emotionally charged way.

"A friend did not call when they said they would." as opposed to "I felt hurt when..."

yeah, made sense and ty for replying

someday i hope to get to the point of not having to delve into feelings, also, but im not there yet. i have to to untwist, or deal, or simply know what im feeling sometimes. esp with secondary emotions...

it IS a lotta work! ty again kari. jody