Hi DebraKay, and a big WELCOME to BPDR!!
I'm glad that your H found this site, or that you found your way here. There are many good people and resources here, all with a recovery focus that has really helped me. Check out the Tool Section on your upper left screen. They are kinda the foundation for much of what we do here not to mention they just work really well. I find myself going back to them over and over-- always learning something new and helpful.
I look forward to getting to know each other better. Again, welcome to the site!
Harmonium