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Kittenmommy
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Post subject: I think I'm in the wrong place! Posted: Thu Apr 07, 2011 5:35 pm |
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I thought this was a support forum for survivors of parents/others with BPD. Whoops!
My mom (very likely) had BPD, but was never diagnosed. Same with her own mom. I've got a lot of stuff I'm working through because of this, and I think I got the wrong place! Sorry!
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Post subject: Re: I think I'm in the wrong place! Posted: Sun Apr 10, 2011 1:24 pm |
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You're welcome here if you want to work on things alongside us, but to be honest, it often makes both sides a little uncomfortable, especially if the survivor (we call them "non's") expresses a lot of anger. It's not that we're in denial that people with BPD can cause chaos and pain in relationships, but at non boards, the condemnation of the particular friend/family member in a non's life can be extremely vicious. We don't find that helpful as we try to sort out our problems, learn to manage our feelings and thoughts, and develop the means to behave and interact in a healthier way. So if you want to work on you, as opposed to venting about the people in your life who have BPD, then we might be able to co-exist.
_________________ I made some studies, and reality is the leading cause of stress amongst those in touch with it. I can take it in small doses, but as a lifestyle I found it too confining. -- Jane Wagner
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Post subject: Re: I think I'm in the wrong place! Posted: Wed Apr 13, 2011 8:23 am |
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dear kittenmom,
try bpdfamily.com
they have a place for you there!
lbjnltx
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