Please feel welcome to read and ask questions that are general, but we cannot, and will not, get involved in sorting out the details of your relationship. Every person with BPD is an individual, and our specific problems, emotions, actions, and so forth are unique and can't be generalized. So we can't really assist you with exactly what has gone on with you and your friend or solve it for you. Those of us who have BPD and post regularly here are committed to working on ourselves -- to really working toward wellness -- and not just to venting about how crappy our lives have been, and the same expectation holds for nons. If you want some tools that are really useful for anybody, not just for people with BPD, check out our "Tools" in the box on the left.
_________________ I made some studies, and reality is the leading cause of stress amongst those in touch with it. I can take it in small doses, but as a lifestyle I found it too confining. -- Jane Wagner
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