apple wrote:
I called her again today to try talking with her again.
Pretty much immediately after saying hello, she told me that she has been feeling uncomfortable with me lately, and that she doesn't know why. She said that she doesn't understand herself what is happening to her.
Before I had the chance to say anything, she said 'bye' and hung up.
Has anyone her experienced what she is talking about?
I think it's time to let this one go.
Ok, well, she has spoken. I would now wait to let her make the next move.
I think to understand what her intent could be, you could measure how she has acted in the past, and whether or not she has been trustworthy. Things are not looking good considering her intent at this point. She acted what I consider to be very rudely towards you.
This could be in reaction to something you did. I think I would analyze my own actions to see if I thought it was. If so, she still didn't handle the situation anywhere near appropriately, but she may be hurt and not know how to handle it, and/or is angry and acting out at you for some injustice she sees. Or, she could possibly just be a stuck-up, cold person who feels like treating someone badly.
Eventually, if I decided she was a real friend who had gained my trust, I would question her about her actions again, because I deserved an explanation. If she didn't want to eventually call me and let me know what happened, depending on the person, I may become worried about her mental health and begin questioning her concerning her current situation. Someone who had gained the status of real friend to me, I would be like 99.999999999999999999999999999% sure would never do this unless they honestly went off the deep end.