Ann wrote:
Yes, I have noticed that there seem to be people in the world who are bitchy and get away with bad behavior and who have friends despite it. I don't have an explanation for this. I am certainly not one of them!
Hi Ann, thanks for your response.Yes this is quite puzzling for me. I try to act more socialable, engage people in conversation but they don't
seem to want to reciprocate by taking an interest in my life and asking me
Ann wrote:
egarding your family, it seems like there were a number of topics of conversation you could have joined in on. Could you have asked some questions about Asia? Did they have photos to look at? I'm not sure that you were the outcast so much as maybe people don't want to be rude by questioning you.
I did join in on some of the conversations and there were some beautiful pictures to look at from Asia. I was a bit put of by some of my
sister-in-law's whining that it would have been a beautiful day/picture if it wasn't raining. I like my sister-in-law a lot and just thought
that she sounded a bit spoiled. I don't have a partner much less one who takes me on exotic vacations! At the moment I'm not working and
my mum says that people don't know what to talk to me about.
Ann wrote:
I'm actually impressed by your accomplishments. You finished school, you completed a challenging treatment program. Do you have a t who is helping you decide what's next?
Thanks! It has been difficult and now after doing the program,getting therapy I feel like I should just get on with things.
I do see a case manager once every two weeks who is very helpful. I haven't had formal therapy since Nov 2007 which was time limited CBT. It helpled
but I am wondering if I need a different approach now.I still struggle with forming relationships with people and I am wary of starting a new
job because of office politics. I am really good at talking myself out of doings things!
SP