Minx wrote:
I'm also pretty insecure, and I'm uncomfortable with successful people. I feel I don't measure up. I don't like feeling that "I'm not good enough".
I was like this too. I couldn't even talk to someone who I looked up to.
I got past it by forcing myself to be around people I thought were successful (whether I felt good or not), and I found out they liked me ok, and that I actually felt better and more comfortable with them than I did the other people I was around.
It was just a feeling, and when I found out the feeling wasn't true, I stopped feeling it. The successful people I have met just want to share what they have with others, and it doesn't matter where I have been, because they seem to have had similar struggles at times. They accept me and want me to jump on the boat with them. But then again, this area is really something else as far as really excellent people go... I couldn't be more impressed with the people here.
I think if you give it a shot (and this is assuming you haven't), you might find the same thing... that you will be accepted into a lot more circles than you imagine.