Home  •  FAQ  •   Forums

It is currently Thu Mar 28, 2024 5:49 pm

All times are UTC - 7 hours [ DST ]




Post new topic Reply to topic  [ 4 posts ] 
Author Message
 Post subject: Help Me
PostPosted: Tue Sep 16, 2008 9:21 pm 
New Member
New Member
User avatar

Joined: Tue Sep 16, 2008 8:21 am
Posts: 6
Location: Lockport,NY
My name is Candy65 and I am getting soo stressed out that I feel like can not handle anymore. My boy-friend is stressing me out,cause he has a lot of physical problems,which I know it is not his fault,but he does not do anything to help himself,but I do still love him. I am not taking care of myself,cause I am trying to take care of him,and it is not working. In the meantime I have tenditios in my wrist which is not healed yet,it has been over 3 months and I am taking medications for it and I see the doctor at the end of this month. How can radically acceptance help me with these situations? I just need a friend and I need to learn how the tools will help me.I am new here. Thanks for reading this.


Top
 Profile  
 
 Post subject: Re: Help Me
PostPosted: Wed Sep 17, 2008 2:33 pm 
New Member
New Member
User avatar

Joined: Tue Jun 17, 2008 8:37 am
Posts: 22
Location: Warwick, New York
hugs? :hi5

ya, i'm not too good at the tools unfortunately. i went to enough dbt to try and visualize a safe happy place. that helps me sometimes. also taking hot showers. i take a lot of them when i'm stressed.

i'm not much help unfortunately... sorry.


Top
 Profile  
 
 Post subject: Re: Help Me
PostPosted: Wed Sep 17, 2008 4:37 pm 
Community Leader
Community Leader
User avatar

Joined: Mon Nov 28, 2005 6:00 pm
Posts: 575
Location: Back home again
Candy, maybe you could pick one tool and just try it. You'll get lots of feedback if you do. Maybe you can start with The Ten Forms of Twisted Thinking, or pick one specific problem and work The Five Steps on it. jim

_________________
Live each day as if an insane theocratic regime had issued a fatwa against you.


Top
 Profile  
 
 Post subject: Re: Help Me
PostPosted: Wed Sep 17, 2008 5:02 pm 
New Member
New Member
User avatar

Joined: Tue Sep 16, 2008 8:21 am
Posts: 6
Location: Lockport,NY
Thanks I will try that one,I know that I need help with my thinking.thanks again


Top
 Profile  
 
Display posts from previous:  Sort by  
Post new topic Reply to topic  [ 4 posts ] 

All times are UTC - 7 hours [ DST ]


Who is online

Users browsing this forum: No registered users and 17 guests


You cannot post new topics in this forum
You cannot reply to topics in this forum
You cannot edit your posts in this forum
You cannot delete your posts in this forum

Jump to:  
cron
Powered by phpBB © 2000, 2002, 2005, 2007 phpBB Group